Does a man’s sexuality change in his 30s?

25 Jan


Straight from his mouth to God's ears.

You may think I made that up, but no! Someone actually found TTTM by searching for today’s blog title. First, I’d like to offer up, “Oh, man, thinking about the sexual conquest possibilities really makes me squish.” Clean up on aisle Var, please.


Anyhoo, I can only assume that this Googler, or whatever, was attempting to find out if men tend to come to terms with their sexual curiosity in their 30s more so than any other decade of existence. Personally, if someone were to say yes, I’d contend bollocks. That’s not to say it doesn’t happen, but that it happens when a person is comfortable enough with who they are and don’t worry about how the world views them. I’m not basing this on any statistics I’ve read or any specialists I’ve consulted. This is just my gut instinct.

Now this brings some questions to mind for me. 1.) Why would someone question their sexuality after 3 decades? 2.) <I pray the Googler is still following the blog, and if so, are you in a state of flux/questioning about your own sexuality? Do you have a friend experiencing this? Essentially, why did you google/yahoo/bing this string of terms? 3.) Hell, I want to know the answer to all of these when you substitute ‘woman’ for ‘man’. We’re dying to know your thoughts, so feel free to pipe up. In other words, comment. Do it!

I’ve gotta say I’m feeling very Dan Savage right now.


3 Responses to “Does a man’s sexuality change in his 30s?”

  1. Dulce January 25, 2011 at 4:17 pm #

    See, I read that title completely differently. I read it as more of a libido change. Like, you know, how I went from pretty sexual to hyper sexual once I entered my thirties. My tastes haven’t changed for the most part, I just run hot all the time now. I would still definitely call that a change in sexuality. Also, I’ve read that mens’ sexual drive starts to decrease throughout their 30s.

    Anyway, that’s just my thought on the title. It has nothing to do with the questions you asked, of course, but you get my thoughts anyway.

    • theVar January 26, 2011 at 10:51 am #

      Dulce, I didn’t even think of that. Libido change definitely takes a directional change . Hell, I’m living proof of it. *thinking* Although, I get whiplash with every passing hot piece of ass.

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